Satisfy your requirements as separately, so and in couple.
Spend time together, not only with the child, about shchaytes with each other as adults, and not just as parents.
It is sometimes demands huge efforts and mutual support, but think of it as about investments into a family.
At the end the ends, employ the nurse.
Satisfying the requirements, you show to children a positive role model how to satisfy their own requirements, respecting similarly others and itself.
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I understood from the experience that is identical it not always fairly and not always helps.
I addressed with earlier the children equally, and it did not bring a rezult t: only was happy what requirements to me it was possible to satisfy.
I am surprised to that did it so long because I remember how was the child and as I wanted that treated me not as with the sister, but I absolutely forgot about it when became mother.
Rules are applied to all equally, but I love all of them porazny equally.
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It not an anathema in relation to the child, this certain deprivation of communication, besides, that we remain responsible both we care of it and we remain strong, stable emotionally in relation to it.
In certain cases the door to the room can be a little open.
Never it is necessary to lock its hook or a latch.
In this sense the method loses any value and the child simply feels that of it want to get rid and punish.
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Work with feelings Try to be attentive to how your child you gives birth the emotions by means of symbols, images and yes so far it has no gestures still neither confidence, nor dictionary stock to put them into words.
The history of mother stated below a striking example of how parents can help the child to understand that occurs from him feelings: We chose vegetables, and my sixyearold son of ska hall: You know, in my opinion, time this year goes absolutely not so, as in the past.
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The understanding and awareness of these difficulties will help you from to rush to itself more tenderly see.
Do not forget about yourself.
I do not remember separate days and events of that of the first weeks.
In total as in fog.
I remember the acrobatic trick in kitchen when I juggled with the baby, at the same time washing the dishes, I remember those long nights and that feeling that I never have no time for myself.
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You so wanted to celebrate it with it.
The last that you wanted to do today, it to lie in a bed with a temperature.
If the father in good mood, he can you to strike desire of the daughter: You would like, that somebody invented cold medicine?
Initial statement: I know, how you do not like thought that it is necessary to sit again with nya to it, but to me it is necessary to go to the dentist.
The child thinks: You always have reasons, to leave me.
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